Common Q & A
Every mediumship reading is different because every medium is different. The spirit world uses many of the memories and experiences that I have had in my lifetime to communicate with you. At times, it can be like a puzzle to figure out what the spirit world is trying to convey to the sitter. Every medium receives their information differently from the spirit world and the interpretation of that information is what makes every reading unique.
My soul blends with the soul of your loved one. In that blending I feel, see, hear and know things about your loved one’s personality and life that they wish to share. You will see that I am only using my mind. I sometimes will close my eyes to experience quietness in my mind while connecting with your loved one.
Most often, yes. But the spirit world has the right to decide whether and when to connect with us. In my work as a medium, I once connected a religiously conservative deceased pastor with his niece. This man, who lived his life devoted to his church and its teachings, did not approve of or believe in mediumship while alive, yet he was delighted to have an opportunity to connect with his niece after his death. When we die and cross over to the spirit world, we come to see a bigger picture. We understand that the belief system we had in our human life was simply a set of principles by which we lived our lives. In the Greater Reality of heaven, the spirit most often finds that their consciousness has expanded to encompass all possibilities and belief systems while on earth have now been set to the side.
There is no hard rule regarding how much time should elapse before a person in spirit can communicate with loved ones left behind. I have experienced connections with those in spirit within a matter of hours after their passing all the way up to fifty years after death. It’s a very hard concept for us to grasp, but there is no time in the spirit world. What is important for us to know is that those on the other side do not perceive time as we do, so there is no impatience or anxiety over when we’re going to make a connection with them. A week is the same as ten years for those in spirit. For us, though, time makes a significant difference. Grief is something which naturally lowers our vibration, the energy signal we carry into the world. With a lower vibration, it’s more difficult to connect with the spirit world. It’s best, therefore, to wait a few months after a loss before trying to make a connection with loved ones who have passed. Allowing sufficient time after loss for some healing to occur can make a good connection much more likely. Your energy and positive vibrational field are equally helpful to a strong connection!
Yes! When we transition to the Greater Reality, we shed that “human suit” which was so constricting at times in life. We are made completely whole again and we are freed of any pain we may have experienced on Earth. I have connected with young children who had not learned to speak before they crossed over, yet in the mediumship reading, they communicated with me quite clearly and without hesitation! Even if your loved one did not speak English, they have a way to communicate with me in a higher vibrational thought frequency that allows me to understand them and share their messages. And trust me, they want to connect with you and share their love for you!
Most often, when we set the intention to hear from our loved ones, they will come forward. Sometimes an unexpected soul may come forward first. Because part of my mission is to serve spirit, I know that there is a reason this happens. Sometimes those in spirit have a need to make an apology to loved ones left behind, while at other times, an older relative may step in first in order to make a strong connection, then I will hear them say “I have your child,” thus bringing in the younger one and assisting in making the reading a success. Those in spirit are incredibly smart and they know exactly what you need and who you need to hear from.
In a psychic reading the medium will blend their soul with your soul. They will read your auric field and share with you anything that you need to know about your current life happenings and any future potentials. In a mediumship reading the medium will blend their soul with the soul in spirit that has crossed over and connect you with your loved ones for heartfelt messages and love.